Blakely’s Kinky Korner 4th episode

11186350_1066502983379071_388392555_nPlease give warm hugs and a wet snog to Kinkster Frank Noir. He is going to share with us today what makes him kinky and what really turns him on. Hopefully, we will all learn something or at the very least get a few new good ideas. :)

Blakely: Hi Frank. Thank you so much for joining us today! We are all looking forward to finding out what makes you kinky.
Frank: Hi Blakely. Thanks for inviting me. I will try to answer as honestly as I possibly can. Continue reading

Can You Fall in Love Online?

onlineI asked this question of my Facebook friends and I was genuinely surprised to find out how many had met their spouses, partners, and lovers online. Many have been together 10+ years and counting.

I guess it’s not a complete surprise to me. I don’t think I’ve ever fallen in love online, although I definitely love friends I have met online and have yet to met in person. It’s definitely a different kind of love, but it’s still there. Continue reading

Blakely’s Kinky Korner #3

11186350_1066502983379071_388392555_nPlease give warm hugs and a wet kiss to Kinkster Deanndra. She is going to share with us today what makes her kinky and what really turns her on. Hopefully, we will all learn something or at the very least get a few new good ideas. :)

11125388_1635175703368293_173852556_nBlakely: Hi Deanndra. Thank you so much for joining us today! We are all looking forward to finding out what makes you kinky.
Deanndra: Ooooo, this is gonna be fun. Hope I don’t embarrass anyone too much. But the ideas I give someone could get them into trouble. I hope they’re fully prepared for that.

Blakely: What’s your definition of kinky?
Deanndra: Hmmm . . . I’d say reading the Kama Sutra front to back and making notes, and hanging out in adult stores more than in grocery stores, shoe stores, or boutiques. Having a professional mechanic’s tool chest full of toys and other goodies will do it too. Now I’m telling on myself, huh? Continue reading

Being a Mom

Me and Aja0001One of the greatest joys of my life has to be being pregnant. I’m aware that this isn’t the most popular view of pregnancy, but I loved every second of it (besides the natural child birth). I have never felt more alive or more animal. I loved having our daughter growing inside me. She was an easy baby too, so we were very lucky with that. She rarely cried.

She challenged us to hell and back as a toddler and I have to say the terrible twos were more like two and a half to four and a half. My mother said over and over again, how you deal with her now (meaning her tantrums and outbursts) will reflect in her teenage years. Well I don’t know if we did something right or if we got damn lucky, but she has been a great teenager. She really is an inspiration to me. Continue reading

Blakely’s Kinky Korner #2

11186350_1066502983379071_388392555_nPlease give warm hugs and a wet snog to Kinkster Neil. He is going to share with us today what makes him kinky and what really turns him on. Hopefully, we will all learn something or at the very least get a few new good ideas. :)

Blakely: Hi Neil. Thank you so much for joining us today! We are all looking forward to finding out what makes you kinky.
Neil: This should be really fun.

Blakely: What’s your definition of kinky?
Neil: Anything outside the normal, boring, mundane sex.

Blakely: What makes you kinky?
Neil: I would have to say my fetishes. I love feet. I love sucking, licking and kissing them. I also like anal play. Stick a toe in my ass and I’m in seventh heaven.

Blakely: Do you consider yourself a TOP, a bottom or a switch or something else entirely?
Neil: Whatever the situation calls for.

Blakely: Why do you think you were attracted to your kink in the first place?
Neil: I would have to say that would be the feeling and the arousal during the first time I was introduce to the experience.

Blakely: Do you think you would ever be able to give up your kink if you fell in love with a person who wasn’t into it?
Neil: I would hope to change her mind but yes for the right woman I would.

Blakely: Does any of your family know about your kink? Do you think they would be shocked?
Neil: Knowing my family, no I don’t think they would be shocked.

Blakely: Is there any kink you wouldn’t try?
Neil: I’m not a big fan of anything that causes pain.

Blakely: Has a lover ever asked you to try a new kink and it shocked you to find out they liked it?
Neil: What shocked me even more was that I liked it.

Blakely: What’s the funniest thing that ever happened to you while you were getting kinky?
Neil: While sucking on her toes, the girl I was with decided to stick her finger in my ass and the shock sent me falling off the bed. However, I went back for more.

Blakely: Do you ever feel shame over your desires?
Neil: There’s no shame in being different.

Blakely: If your lover came to you and said they weren’t into your kink anymore, would you give up your kink or your partner?
Neil: I would have to say that I would give up kink if I was in love.

Blakely: Where is the oddest place you have ever masturbated?
Neil: I was out surfing and met this girl on the waves. She left, I stayed out in the water on my surfboard.

Blakely: Do you fantasize about people you know or create your own characters?
Neil: I usually use people that I know but after my artist rendered the female lead in my book, I sometimes fantasize about her.

Blakely: What kind of porn do you watch?
Neil: Being bisexual, I like several different things: foot porn, lesbian, and gay.

Blakely: Have you explored your bi side at all?
Neil: No.

Blakely: How long have you known you were bi?
Neil: I’m not sure, 20 years maybe… I’m not attracted to men, as a whole, just the sexual aspects… if you get my meaning…
Blakely: Sure I do. I think you can be sexually attracted without being emotionally attracted.
Neil: I’m just as happy role reversing with a woman…
Blakely: As in letting her dominate you?
Neil: As in letting her strap one on, yeah.

Blakely: What you would most like to try with another man?
Neil: Hmmm… probably giving head…I like sucking toes, I’m curious if I’d like sucking a dick… after that, I’d go bottoms up.

Blakely: Have you ever tried something out of your comfort zone and regretted it?
Neil: BDSM, like I said, I don’t like pain.

Blakely: Can a kiss be kinky? If so, how?
Neil: Yes, it’s all in the tongue.

Blakely: What’s your top fantasy that you want to experience?
Neil: A bisexual threesome.

Blakely: What happened the first time you did something kinky? Was it fun or embarrassing?
Neil: She started rubbing on me with her feet as I was massaging them. She put one up to my lips and I just went with it and started kissing her toes and then started sucking on them. I liked it a little too much.

Blakely: Have you stopped dating someone that wasn’t willing to experiment?
Neil: No, I’m not that shallow.

Blakely: Is kinky only kinky the first time?
Neil: Kinky is kinky all the time.

Blakely: Is kink compatibility as important as emotional compatibility in a long-term relationship?
Neil: It’s close, but not quite. Emotional compatibility is the most important thing in a long term relationship.

A huge thank you goes out to Neil for sharing his kink with us. Thanks for being open and so honest with us.

If you’d like to be interviewed, please email at blakely.bennett@gmail.com or find me on Facebook.

For those who like kink, make sure to check out my Bound by Your Love Series and other books. ​Buy links: AmazonB&NSmashwordsiTunes and many other outlets.

Blakely’s Kinky Korner #1

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Please give warm hugs and a wet snog to Kinkster Tammatha. She is going to share with us today what makes her kinky and what really turns her on. Hopefully, we will all learn something or at the very least get a few new good ideas. :)

11195451_10153166674235943_1514732539_nBlakely: Hi Tammatha. Welcome to Blakely’s Kinky Korner! Thank you so much for being my very first interviewee! <3
Tammatha: Hi Blakely Thank you for having me. I never really considered myself a kinster until people actually call my likes kinky.

Blakely: What do you think makes you kinky?
Tammatha: I think what makes me kinky is that my taste are out of the “norm” of what people would normally try or do. There aren’t very many things in the sexual realm I would not try. Continue reading

Your Spouse’s Sexual Needs

ID-10076442One of my best friends (who is a man and married) and I were just chatting about sex in marriage and I decided you all might want to chime in. I strongly believe as a loving, caring spouse, one should be concerned and invested in meeting their partner’s sexual needs. So many of my male friends are sexually dissatisfied at home. Their spouses don’t seem to want or need sex anymore, and are unwilling to make any strides to find out why that might be like hormone level testing and the like. Continue reading

20 Years to Life

ID-100272375On Thursday, my wonderful husband and I will be celebrating twenty years together. That’s not too shocking given that many people manage it. However, after twenty years, we are still, and more so, madly in love with one another. We aren’t staying together for our daughter. We won’t be lost as empty nesters, we are looking forward to it. We aren’t staying together for religious reasons. We are staying together because we still very much enjoy each other in every aspect of our lives. We still crave sex with one another and “make out like teenagers” to quote our daughter. Continue reading

Blakely’s Friday Interview with Zax Vagen

Please give a warm welcome to Zax Vagen, author of Finding the Soul Bridge.

41eR+uFdWNL._UX250_Tell us a bit about yourself and what you’re currently working on or promoting.
I am a diverse character with many talents. When I was just a young boy, my father told me that I could be anything that I chose to be. I misunderstood his meaning as; “You can be everything.” Now I am just a plumber… and and electrician… and I own and run three small businesses, P.S Plumbing services, Renewable energy products and GreenEarth WormFarms. I’m also a boat captain, a scuba diving instructor, a real estate investor, a snake wrangler and shark diver extraordinaire… I write fantasy, scifi, motivation and romance. I have built a ship, been shipwrecked, gone bankrupt, restarted, patented inventions, started a new industry, written and published a novel, acted in five movies and planted more than 1000 trees. Continue reading

Plan a Bed Day Soon!

I had an absolutely fabulous weekend with my husband. It’s been years since we’ve had a proper bed day and all I can say is PLAN A BED DAY SOON! You won’t regret it.

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What is a bed day and how should I plan for it? I hear you all asking. Well I’ll tell you: Continue reading