My husband turned me onto The Nu Project website where women from all over North and South American have submitted their nude photos in support of the endeavor to show what real women look like. That’s not to say models are not real women, however they are so far in the minority that to base our societies standards on their physiques is to set up a culture where the majority of women feel dissatisfied with their bodies. This project celebrates all types of women’s shapes and curves. I, for one, think it’s fabulous.
As someone who has often compared herself to women twenty years younger than I, I love to see all shapes and size represented. In the My Body Trilogy, my characters are fit and lean mostly because that’s what I find appealing although I plan to write other novels with all types of characters represented. Lauren Dane, in one of her Chase Brothers series novels, has a full-figured main female character which I very much enjoyed.
I’m considered an average size woman now but in my early adulthood I was definitely full-figured and struggled with my own self-image. As a practicing nudist, one of the most liberating aspects is to see all shapes and sizes of men and women and their comfort level with their own bodies. Each and every body is unique and loving my own body, makes me even more inclined to take great care of it.
My husband and I just watched Monique Marvez: Not Skinny Not Blonde comedy show on Showtime. I highly recommend that you check it out. We laughed our asses off but it also enlightened me to a very important fact of life. Something I probably unconsciously knew but never spent much time thinking about. She said that how women see themselves, us being our own worst critics, is very different than how men see us, most especially the men who love us. I believe this to be true so from now on I plan to see myself through my husband’s eyes instead of my own because he has such a positive attitude toward how I look.
I’m excited to share The Nu Project with you and help promote any endeavor that shines a positive light on a culture based on reality instead of an ideal. Hopefully the project will expand to include men as well.
Check it out and let me know what you think. As always, I love to read your comments.
I hope everyone had a wonderful week. The blog tour is going well and the official release of My Body-His (Marcello) happened on Friday which is very exciting. Looking forward to reading your reviews.
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